
Tools, practices and methods
The world is full of amazing tools that may be perfectly suited to accelerate our journey, but often we only discover them through chance encounters, and can lose years being stuck in sub optimal loops.
Our endeavor is to catalog a growing list of tools and eventually match them to you based on your context.
The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)
The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) is a widely used tool for assessing and understanding how individuals approach and handle conflicts. Developed by Kenneth W. Thomas and Ralph H. Kilmann, the TKI is based on the idea that people have different preferences when it comes to resolving conflicts. The instrument identifies five primary conflict resolution modes or styles, which are: Competing, Collaborating, Compromising, Avoiding and Accomodating
Conflict Coaching
Conflict coaching is a process in which a trained coach helps individuals navigate and manage conflicts more effectively. The primary aim is to empower individuals to develop their conflict resolution skills, enhance communication, and find constructive solutions to conflicts. Conflict coaching is often applied in various settings, such as personal relationships, workplaces, or organizational environments, to address interpersonal conflicts and improve overall conflict management abilities.
The Gottman Method
The Gottman Method, developed by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman, is a researched-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on strengthening relationships through enhancing friendship, managing conflicts, and creating shared meaning. The method is grounded in extensive scientific research and provides practical tools for couples to build and maintain a healthy connection.
Transactional Analysis (TA)
Transactional Analysis (TA) is a psychological framework that conceptualizes human interactions as dynamic exchanges within three ego states: Parent, Adult, and Child. This approach utilizes the metaphor of a mental playground to understand and analyze communication patterns, life positions, and decision-making processes.
Imago Relationship Therapy
Imago Relationship Therapy, developed by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, is a form of couples therapy that aims to help individuals and couples create more fulfilling and conscious relationships. The therapy is based on the premise that individuals are drawn to partners who have qualities that resemble both the positive and negative traits of their primary caregivers. Imago therapy seeks to explore these patterns and promote healing and growth.

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